Divorce

Any questions or queries about divorce, the process (will differ according to country), how to deal with it when its amicable, how to deal with it when its not and how to be very very careful when its abusive and dealing with a narcissist.

Divorce
Narcissists
Parental alienation and Toxic parenting

Child Abuse the systems failure

by Isobel E. Richard It is an extremely unfortunate reality that the system fails parents and children in a high conflict divorce when the often narcissistic parent alienates the children from the other parent. It is a phenomenon where the narcissistic parent is adept at manipulating and convincing all parties, with the brainwashed children supporting […]

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Divorce
Narcissists
Parental alienation and Toxic parenting

Child abuse and Family Violence

by Isobel E. Richard Parental alienation is a very controversial subject and many don’t even know what it is, but the most dangerous is those who actually think they know and advise parents incorrectly. I saw red recently when a divorce site actually said that as a parent it was your duty to say something […]

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Grey divorce

Grey Divorce

So not only did I find out I was divorcing and had to contend with a narcissist spouse divorce and parental alienation. I found I was part of the growing statistics of Grey Divorces as well! A Grey divorce is the new trend of baby boomers who are 50 years + and the divorce rate […]

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Divorce
Narcissists
Parental alienation and Toxic parenting

Divorcing a narcissistic abuser

So there I was being asked for a divorce, but nothing is standard especially with a covert narcissist. He had decided to get divorced because I did not love him anymore! The more I tried to explain that I still cared for him and had been trying to tell him for years that he had […]

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Divorce
Narcissists

The Narcissist in a marriage

I will draw on my own narrative in this case but please remember that narcissists are chameleons and adapt and playact so they are all different in certain scenario’s. You get abrasive and extrovert, charming narcissists who the world loves but in your marriage you fear. My own story is about a covert, socially challenged […]

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Divorce

Divorce

So you or your spouse wants a divorce, for whatever reason: grown apart, a third person present, and so forth. First prize is to talk it through and try and see if circumstances allow for counselling and possible reconciliation. ( yes I know its not always possible but where it is please make the effort.) […]

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